Mastering Midlife with Heidi

42. How Feeling Guilty & Selfish Destroys Your Self Worth

Heidi Gustafson

Constant feelings of guilt and selfishness can be devastating to your self-esteem, making you feel uncomfortable talking about yourself, worried about being seen as self-centered, and afraid to say no or express your true feelings.  In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • The three reasons why so many of us feel guilty and selfish so often
  • The way these feelings can negatively impact our lives 
  • Three quick techniques you can use to rewire your brain anytime you’re feeling guilty or selfish 


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